Have you noticed how easy it is for us as humans to find faults—in others, in situations, even in ourselves?
We zoom in on what someone didn’t do, what they said wrong, how they fell short. We hold on to past disappointments, old arguments, missed birthdays, forgotten thank-yous—like souvenirs from a museum of resentment.
Life is too short to be a full-time fault-finder. The more we focus on what’s wrong and the more we replay the past, the less present we become.
Yes, people make mistakes. Yes, they forget. They speak without thinking. They stumble. So do we. We’re all walking this life with invisible loads on our shoulders—grief, worry, fear, trauma—and some days we just don’t show up at our best.
So let it go. Letting go isn’t about weakness. It’s about strength—choosing peace over pettiness, understanding over anger, and compassion over control.
Personally I just cannot handle complainers and people who bitch anymore. It becomes too draining to my energy. Empowering growth happens not when we keep pointing fingers, but when we accept that we too are not perfect and move past the trivial crap and learn to be positive.
