Insecurity of Women with Their Spouses/Partners
Hate to say this but many women are insecure in their relationships and behave like high schoolers even after they are middle aged.
Insecurities take many forms – you could be insecure about how you look, your work, your family, and your relationships with men. These insecurities become quite visible no matter how hard you try to camouflage them.
If you are married or dating someone that you feel is better looking than yourself, before you consider doing that, it is important for you to get yourself secure enough to handle this relationship.
By always thinking that other women are craving for your spouse or boyfriend is beyond immature and lame. Women do not realize but their insecurities feed into the man’s ego, giving him more importance than he needs. When you go out with him, to always assume that other women are looking at him or desiring him are childish assumptions to make. These insecurities result in narcissistic behavior and you putting down other women down rather than working on your own issues of lack of trust in your partner. Your insecurity is because of him, and you need to spend time resolving that, before blaming others.
Relationship insecurity means you are unsure about your relationship thinking you are NOT good enough for your partner. This results in you always worrying about what your partner is doing or will do. Most of the time your insecurities run so deep you fail to recognize them and start blaming everyone else around. A strong confident woman will automatically stop trying to work a relationship where she feels insecure. She will simply walk away.
Simple advice to all those in these insecure relationships – learn to love and respect yourself before you drag out your “so called good looking†partner and start thinking every woman wants him. Learn to love and respect yourself before you get into relationships. Learn to believe in yourself before you question the actions of others. And maybe leave the so-called boyfriend or spouse at home until you believe you are worth being seen with him or have enough trust built in within your relationship. One last thought. it may not be other women looking at him. it could be him looking at other women and they stare back thinking “what’s this weirdo up to!â€
Never assume!
